Introduction: Do you remember the song, “Friends are Friends Forever”?

And friends are friends forever
If the Lord’s the Lord of them
And a friend will not say never
‘Cause the welcome will not end
Though it’s hard to let you go
In the Father’s hands we know
That a lifetime’s not too long
To live as friends.

The song was written by Michael W. Smith.

Do you have a “FOREVER FRIEND”?

Jesus Christ is a “FRIEND FOREVER”!

1. Jonathan LOVED his “FRIEND” David! (1Sam 20:1-4, 17)

“3And David sware moreover, and said, Thy father certainly knoweth that I have found grace in thine eyes; and he saith, Let not Jonathan know this, lest he be grieved: but truly as the LORD liveth, and as thy soul liveth, there is but a step between me and death. 4Then said Jonathan unto David, Whatsoever thy soul desireth, I will even do it for thee.”

Because of jealousy and a evil spirit, Saul plots to kill David. But Saul’s son, Jonathan, loves and wants to help David.

“….. 6So Jonathan made a covenant with the house of David, saying, Let the LORD even require it at the hand of David’s enemies. 17And Jonathan caused David to swear again, because he loved him: for he loved him as he loved his own soul.”

And friends are friends forever
If the Lord’s the Lord of them
And a friend will not say never
‘Cause the welcome will not end
Though it’s hard to let you go
In the Father’s hands we know
That a lifetime’s not too long
To live as friends

2. Jonathan laid down his life for his “FRIEND” David! (1Sam 20:30-33)

“0Then Saul’s anger was kindled against Jonathan, and he said unto him, Thou son of the perverse rebellious woman, do not I know that thou hast chosen the son of Jesse to thine own confusion, and unto the confusion of thy mother’s nakedness? 31For as long as the son of Jesse liveth upon the ground, thou shalt not be established, nor thy kingdom. Wherefore now send and fetch him unto me, for he shall surely die. 32And Jonathan answered Saul his father, and said unto him, Wherefore shall he be slain? what hath he done? 33And Saul cast a javelin at him to smite him: whereby Jonathan knew that it was determined of his father to slay David. 34So Jonathan arose from the table in fierce anger, and did eat no meat the second day of the month: for he was grieved for David, because his father had done him shame.”

Remember:
And friends are friends forever
If the Lord’s the Lord of them
And a friend will not say never
‘Cause the welcome will not end
Though it’s hard to let you go
In the Father’s hands we know
That a lifetime’s not too long
To live as friends

Jesus said, “Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.” (John 15:13)

In order to have a friend, we must show ourself friendly.

3. Jonathan saved the life of his “FRIEND” David! (1Sam 20:35-42)

“5And it came to pass in the morning, that Jonathan went out into the field at the time appointed with David, and a little lad with him. 36And he said unto his lad, Run, find out now the arrows which I shoot. And as the lad ran, he shot an arrow beyond him. 37And when the lad was come to the place of the arrow which Jonathan had shot, Jonathan cried after the lad, and said, Is not the arrow beyond thee? 38And Jonathan cried after the lad, Make speed, haste, stay not. And Jonathan’s lad gathered up the arrows, and came to his master. 39But the lad knew not any thing: only Jonathan and David knew the matter. 40And Jonathan gave his artillery unto his lad, and said unto him, Go, carry them to the city. 41And as soon as the lad was gone, David arose out of a place toward the south, and fell on his face to the ground, and bowed himself three times: and they kissed one another, and wept one with another, until David exceeded. 42And Jonathan said to David, Go in peace, forasmuch as we have sworn both of us in the name of the LORD, saying, The LORD be between me and thee, and between my seed and thy seed for ever. And he arose and departed: and Jonathan went into the city.”

Jesus is a FOREVER FRIEND!

“…there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother,” (Prov 18:24).

Have you found a friend in Jesus?

There’s an old song with the words that convey this thought:

Conclusion: Just as Jonathan loved his FRIEND David, we can love & appreciate the FRIENDS that Jesus brings into our lives.

Will you text, email, or call a FRIEND right now and let them know you LOVE them with the LOVE of the Lord?