The word “confess” is ἐξομολογέω (ex-om-ol-og-eh’-o), which means to acknowledge, or even to give thanks, or perhaps acknowledge a debt. Truthfully, one of the most difficult things after becoming a Christian is admitting our failures. Why? Because it often makes us FEEL BAD! We do not want to feel bad unless God the Holy Spirit is convicting us, which means we are God’s children (see Heb. 12:5-11).

Yet, much like dreading a visit to the dentist for an extraction or filling because of the initial pain, ultimately, afterward, it brings great RELIEF! And so it is with our walk with Jesus. Having sweet fellowship with Him through confession and cleansing makes it well worth taking a step of obedience with transparency.

However, we need to add a word of CAUTION: Beware of sharing confidential information with just anybody who professes Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior. Why? Because most Christians are not ready to hear or respond from a biblical point of view rather than a fleshly point of view—not to mention keeping it private without gossiping. A tidal wave of irreparable damage can result from innocently “sharing.” Be extra careful!

The word “faults” is ἁμαρτία (ham-ar-tee’-ah). It has to do with missing the mark. It can also refer to guilt. Literally, it means sin, or it can mean a fault or a failure (in an ethical sense)—a sinful deed. We have all missed the mark! Unfortunately, at times, we take our eyes off Jesus, like Peter, who began to sink after being distracted by the wind and waves. Do you ever get distracted from Jesus?

By the way, this verse does not insinuate that we need a Pope, priest, or preacher to confess all of our sins to. Instead, this seems to indicate some accountability along with responsibility. This, of course, is only after we’ve done business with the God of the Bible.

• Do you need to be more accountable?
• Are you one that just hits and misses in church when you want to?

Conclusion: Our Father in heaven knows what is best for His children. Therefore, He led James by His Spirit to pen these words. Confession is good for the soul! Without it, our heart gets as hard as a rock. However, with it, God softens our heart to be pliable.